Monday, October 31, 2016

The way to apology

I always say " Never apologise for who you are " but when it comes about our actions and how they affect the people we love the most , then i say to ask for forgiveness. 

There are times that we say or do things without realising and heart people. If you know it immediately , it would be nice to say I'M SORRY !
If not , then the person we had offended should say it the sooner the better , so our relationships not be broken at the end . It is a great achievement for yourself , first of all .

So here are the 3 most important parts to an apology: 

                                                                #1 Say you are sorry 

Before almost 2 months , without realised what i was saying ( yes , human being here , make mistakes too ) i made the person i love the most upset. The other day we were talking on the phone and it came up . Most of the times is not what you say but how you say it and that hurts . 

                                                             #2 Own it / no excuses

By the time i heard it , i felt so embarrassed that it was like loosing the ground under my feet.Without second thought , i knew i owned an apology. This time no excuses on the table , only i was so deeply sorry for being so stupid and not counting my words. It is not bad to make mistakes , it is when you know it and don't make anything about .

                                                   #3 Don't repeat the behaviour 

I don't know if she will ever read this post but it was a personal experience, i wanted to share it with you guys and make sure that you ( and i ) start to think twice before we speak. Because we can not take back words but we can learn from our mistakes. 

Never apologise for who you are but apologise for your actions , only when family , friends or even your partner is hearted . Feelings may be increasing as we speak. 

I'm sorry for made you upset !

La Grecque Voyageuse  xoxoxo

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

" To find yourself , think for yourself " Socrates

" Be careful of your thoughts , they become words
Be careful of your words , they become actions 
Be careful of your actions , they become habits
Habits they become your personality , which become your destiny "

On my previous post , i talked about loving our bodies , accept who you are and never have to apologise .
Today , i will talk about thoughts and how they can affect our lives. As you already saw above , everything starts from just a simple thought and it ends to become our destiny.

How many of us , mainly , when we are angry with someone or with something , we are having bad thoughts which can lead to actions ?
On the other hand , what happens when you think the face of a loving person ? Your dad's , your mum's , your brother's or sister's ?? Your pet or you best friend? A situation ? A happy memory? Your face is glowing ! It takes time to reach the point , where you can manage your thoughts .

Once , long time ago , i was having conversation with my mother. She was insisting on that people don't change. Me , on the other side , i was telling her that was not true. They can change, only if they want to. When you can control your thoughts , you can control your actions . It's a risk that worths to take it . You own to you , to yourself !

After all our thoughts control our mood. Try to change the way you are thinking . Read books , talk with other people , take a walk , take some time for you , listen to the music. These are just simple ways to help you out . 

Start from now , today to have beautiful , nice , kind thoughts. Put yourself first and try to say a compliment , such "i love you" , "you look good today "... SAY IT , out loud !!!             The more you say it , the more affect your thoughts !

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La Grecque Voyageuse xoxoxo